5/29/2024 (Updated: 12/23/2025) - by Maddi Shuler - Personal Banking
Getting married is an unforgettable and exciting milestone in life that leads to many changes. You gain a new last name, a new emergency contact, and you must learn to responsibly manage your finances as a couple.
In the midst of all the marriage guidance you're collecting from loved ones, we're jumping in to offer you some newlywed financial advice. The joint money habits you create together will affect the house you can afford, the loans and interest rates you get approved for, the age you can retire at, and even whether you can have recreational vehicles (like boats and RVs) that make life a little more fun.
To help kick-start your strategic planning for achieving financial success as a couple, here’s a look at four personal financial tips for newlyweds.
After the wedding bells ring, ”you” become an ”us.” Outlining your financial goals as a couple can give you both a sense of shared purpose when it comes to managing your money. Think about short-term goals and long-term goals, as achieving financial goals along your marriage journey can make saving money more fun.
These goals typically take less than a year to achieve and can help you manage your finances more efficiently in the immediate future. Examples include:
These goals generally take several years or even decades to achieve. They require patience and consistency but lead to significant rewards down the road. Examples include:
It's no secret money can cause conflict in marriages; by starting early and discussing goals and opinions about the future, you can establish a shared commitment and establish plans to make both partners happy.
When two individuals come together in marriage, it’s likely they each bring their own set of assets and debts. Assets may include cars, homes, real estate property, investment accounts, personally owned businesses, or any item(s) of value. Debt may include student loans, mortgages, and credit card debt. It’s important to lay it all out there so you and your spouse can determine who will own the assets and the best way to repay the debt. Even if one spouse is entering the marriage with more debt, you should make a plan to tackle the debt together.
Being honest about your spending habits and credit standing can help the two of you become confident in your decision to combine your finances or keep them separate and provide you with areas to improve, if necessary. Do you prefer to spend money or save it? What are your thoughts on investments? How do you prepare for unexpected expenses? Some couples prefer a ”yours, mine, and ours” approach to finances, while others prefer to manage everything jointly. There’s no ”right” answer; open and honest communication can help you determine what will work best for your marriage.
Unfortunately, when unexpected emergencies happen, they can be disastrous for your finances. You never know when you or your spouse could be laid off from your job, discover a leak in your roof, or need to take time off work to care for a loved one. By prioritizing an emergency fund, you might save yourself and your spouse quite a bit of stress.
A good rule of thumb is to have at least 3-6 months of living expenses saved up should you need a safety net for unexpected emergencies. If you do an automatic transfer to a savings account each time you get paid, you probably won’t even know the money is missing – and you’ll thank yourself later.
Marriage is an exciting time for both of you. This is the time to start building your dream life with one another. You might be making decisions on building or buying a home, relocating to another city, or starting a family. Whatever your next step is, remember to live within your means and not take on more debt than you can comfortably repay.
Try the 50/30/20 budget. This budget allocates 50 percent of your income to necessities, 30 percent for wants, and 20 percent for savings and financial goals. Necessities include your housing payment, transportation (gas and car payment), insurance, groceries, utilities, and any other necessary items you need for day-to-day life. Up to 30 percent of your income can go towards your wants – things you desire but don’t necessarily need. Items in this category include dining out, entertainment, vacations, shopping, hobbies, etc. Lastly, ensure you keep at least 20 percent to contribute to your financial goals including your emergency fund, retirement accounts, and anything else you’re saving for.
Don’t let the stress of finances dull your newlywed bliss. After all, you’ve got a lifetime to figure it out together. Starting early can help set you up for success later on. As always, our SouthState bankers are here to answer your financial questions that may come up along the way.
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